I am a little native german man, sometimes nerdy or even femboy like but very smart and somehow gentle from the first look. I already had a very kinky past, discovered much but more and more my always suppressed submissive side for the right woman comes out.
So I seek the extreme, a Mistress or Woman with a heart to dominate or maybe just like me, a woman who suppressed this side all the years.
Its about FLR / C3 / TPE:
– He lives to submit to her…
– He finds satisfaction to make her happy or to get attention from her…
– He always cares about her…
– He has no control over his life. Everything is controlled by her…
– Even his sexuality. She will decide when or whether at all he is without chastity…
– Without permission he is only allowed to go to work…
– The full control…
I think it sums it up quite well. What constantly arouses me in some way, or the thoughts that keep catching up with me, no matter how often I try to suppress it…
I am aware that this sounds very extreme and I was thinking that for years too. But there are some factors in life that could influence such a thinking. You don’t need to be stupid, naive or some would say “a boomer” for that.
I think for me it’s the general view on life. Most modern values just don’t interest me at all. I hop from one phase of life to the next but ultimately, when modern values seem meaningless, you always end up back at the point without a real purpose in life. Somehow the development of the work life is just there to afford things that don’t interest me for myself at all (house, car, etc.). It sounds strange, but the right Woman and Mistress could fill exactly this void as an ultimate life-purpose.
So maybe hearing that explanation from a young man, someone who had already a kinkful past, who is educated and smart will give you some insights about the why. I think that mostly older people like it, it’s not because of the generation, it’s because we suppress our sexually driven feelings too much until we understand too late.
